Questions & Answers on Heart Matters

How to know that you are pleasing the wrong person?
When it never gave you anything good in return, And, you have all the will in the world to go but chose not to.




How can you love someone for way too long?
It's God work. No definite answer on the know-how. The says; if you're meant for each other, then you're meant to be together.




What to do when you are at the edge of a cliff in the courtship?
Stay far apart, take some time for yourself. IF you can live fine without the other half or better without, then you'll know when is when.




What to do when you got on - off on - off again with so-called biscuit beau? And, when its off, the desire to restart things is unbelievable but when its on, it never gotten any better?
Some people got 2 to 3 times kicks start to rejuvenate their relationship and amazingly, it works EVERY SINGLE TIME. But if you only get the confusion, and the flames don't heat that long. this time, pack your things and don't left a trace. Whats done was done and take good things with you. #positivist





What to do when the new man don't really get you the way your ex did?
If you buy a car, you agreed on the installments, terms and contract. Without any guaranty that even if it's a new car, it can left you stranded by the roadside; worst to worst. Its the same. No one is much better than the other if the way you judge remain the same. Take risk, loved up and work on it together.





How if you got your goals and he got his but both can't meet end to end in one boat?
Forget fights and harshness. Be in the same / different boat is not a problem at all. Even both paddle your own boat, it still good to paddle side by side tho. Or, if against all odds that you can't commit at all, worry not. The Earth is round, let's hope you bump in to each other very soon.




Decades courtship is awesome but when you ring the bell and white gowns things, other half doesn't seem to go along ?
The only difference between years long relationship and marriage is the trust. If he trust you 100 % despite whatever may be, he"ll definitely sign the paper. So if he does love you above all things and you want to get marry, he'll PUT YOU FIRST before the paper. In fact "It's just a paper ", they say.






He cheated the first round and wanted the second chance?
Up to you, but the strongest person is the one that gives the second chance. Second chance shows people the real you that had always been passionate to work things right, together. UP To YOU.