The Curse Words.

For the past few years,I noticed that cursive words had became the 'in-trend' and the westerners even commercialize them as the "blurring-safe-comedy".
 In any of the situation, whether some one get a great news or the bad one, (obviously), people will curse.
they like to mix the +ve and the -ve words alltogether like "H***S***".

Once the mouth is opened, the burst comes out..

i was thinking like whats wrong with the people nowadays?
generally, we all know that the cursive phrase are not nice to be spoken because they depicting who you are and more, it hurts people badly.
this has gotten worst when you 'curse' some one for the good help they did for you to replace 'thank you'.
when its happen ill be like...

WHAT THE HEAVEN? 

So, I would like to share the common knowledge in Islam that when a Muslim curse, society will reflect on negative attitudes to him/her even at the end of day, we try to make it up and be as positive as we can. 
Muslim is educate to be aware of what we are saying because we have faith that words are prayers.

 (I believe the same goes to other believes..right?)

Plus what's with the cursing when we have the short and simple recitations for every situation happens in our daily life?

Beside, the recitations can be used as one for all! 

When you're shock, you can recite 
"Allahuakbar!" or 
"Astagfirullahhalazim" 
or, "Mashaallah" or, 
"Subhanallah" or 
"Lailahaillallah" or 
"Innalillah" or 
"Allah" or 
"AllahummasollialasayyidinaMuhammad" or, 
"Tabarakallah" and many others..


Instead of "F***" or, "Stu***" or, "GTH" or "GTD" or, "Bi***" or, "Blo**You" or other impolite verbal gestures to express your happiness, gratefulness and  ,"shocks", i thinm the recitations must have sounded much much more better!

In fact speaking nicely is one of the civilized value as a human.. especially as a Malaysian..we would always accept the..
"Oh My God!" 
"Oh Dear!" 
"I'm sorry" 
"Really?" 
"Oh My Goodness" ,

at all cost.. 
 you might want to list them down, and you'll definitely get a lengthy one...:)

The recent studies proven that these cursers-haha - are carrying more than 80% negativity in themselves in every aspect of their life.

so how would you be a successful person and achieve all your life goals when all you have is the negative attitudes??

& the occurred issue about this behavior disorder was that ; the spoken language is like a transmitted disease.
It can be trended and absorb by anyone until that society will most probably loose their own traditional language.
The younger generation tend to adapt the language as 'normal' and 'formal' for them until they lost rational which one is the proper and soothe for the society?

I tend to consider this language as very 'disturbing' and 'suffocating'.
I must say, at times, i also can't stop myself from saying the lowest level (i studied that these phrases have levels) of this cursive words when someone really ditched himself into a big big problem with me BUT, that's it. i'll stop right away. Because..
(He's not even listening my cursive words)
(He didn't find me being furious by saying those words)

I tried hard to learn expressing my anger with the same burning a.k.a #DEEP words so that the person will be like 
"What are you saying just now??"

Well, it actually can be a prayer and an advice with the sarcasm word inside, in a simple sentence with the double-meaning or so i can say #Deep.

It is much much more better to say something that is right even though people will get hurts because we can't ever satisfy everyone. 
So at least, tell them the right things instead of cursing and wishing them to die.

"Honest person will never get a bunch of friends but those few, are the true ones."

I'm 20 & It's hilarious!

      " Growing old is mandatory;

    growing up is optional "

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Since I'm 20 this year, I want to make a few confessions.
This wasn't easy because I might get the misty eyes.

First, when you're 20 you can feel your body is transforming to be an adult, I mean, overall changes lead you to 
someone you never expect to be.
A part of me hate to be touched and being super sensitive on stuffs that I don't even care when I was a kiddos.
It may sound lame but, when a guy try to squeezed himself when you are in line at the supermarket and he accidentally touched you, you feel its rather 'bothersome' and 'purposely' even when its not. 
The sudden ocean of feelings will pop up when you are not even thinking about anything.
It just your under-conscious emotion settings that somehow existed before you realize you are being like that.
That explains why at times you just hate yourself for not being 'you'. 


2nd, the thoughts of the "turning point".
When you have your morning coffee or simply driving out of college, even simple things you see by the roadside will make you think so much!
You will question yourself about many matters that you never thought!
That's the moment when you say,

"Why I never thought of it before!"
"I am such an idiot!" 

And then, just because of ONE THING happened, you will recall all the regret in the past, feeling sorry for those you've hurt before, and regretting the people that you took for granted.
You just can't help to lie your emotions but only follow your instincts and try to make it up as better as possible.


One of the biggest fault in my stars is when I'm not being a good sister for my little sissy.
When she's now turn 8 years old, and I'm start to cuddle her like a baby, she asked me; 
"Why didn't you do this when I was small?"
"Move aside! It's annoying!.."

She didn't know nothing but since she came 12 years apart after me, it's hard to be the second compared to the last in the family.
I took 5 months to believe that I actually have a little sister.

So now that I'm older, I try to reminisced old memories with her when she was still a baby with a super fat neck that the neck actually "sank" because she was too plumply !

Sadly, I have none.
I can't remember anything.

"It was hard for me, to make up things now when actually I'm not even know how it begun in the past."

3rd, my 20's story always revolve around big kick start!
My sisters are getting her first car, one is getting married, and the addition of the new family member. 
Some people might think that these are normal but it is not normal when you see someone wears a ring on your sister's middle finger and you feel like you really going to loose her.
Even you know that it's time already and that's the right thing to do but to see someone that close to you being taken away is...
"HEARTBREAKING".
But still, I am happy for them more than anyone else!

Kak Nana and Kak Ano are being ditched this year!! 

Maybe I should wait for my turn?
Haha!

So I just want people to know, that we make some bad decisions, and we are not good enough to keep everything on track but, when it is the right time for you to say/do/express something to someone, please don't hesitate.

At least, when you're 50 you can say that;

 "...you're not perfect,

              but you had those perfect times." 

"If forgiving is sexiness, I would spend my whole life forgiving you.."

But, I can't...

             

People, have you ever wonder why someone might ditch you but later dump you on a road that you have never taken before?

In those pitch black night, and when no one seems to pass around, you got nobody to turn to.
You basically feel..

" Tell me what's easy when it comes to you? Knowing you    was hard, being with you was harder, and forgetting you      was the hardest!"

But he/she easily gets to the most exposed layers of yours and be the 'one' that you think is true.
(Mistakes happen at all times-It's fine.)

The experience of being dumped or left out
(other terminologies used are acceptable)  isn't a total 'black memory' after all..

 Maybe its true that Two is better than one..
And it is also true that One does not mean lonely..

We have so much time to figure out what we want in life..
How we want our future to hold us back the way we want to..

When I was in that situation before, I seriously thought..

"I think, God sent you to open my eyes on how I should      define trust and believe.."

You can call it as an embarrassing one to remember but soon enough, your feelings will grow and you, yourself will settle down gradually..

You just need courage to say..

" Let's begin again.."

If you fell for him/her once...and he's (in my case) the hard-one to forget.. Soothe your inner peace by saying..

" I fell to you once, and last. For a 'boy'/'girl' like you, I'm      glad it didn't last long."

We MUST MUST MUST have faith that heaven knows better..
Some people meant to 'drop-by' and several for 'a life-time'..
You just have to be patience, and work out on your destiny..
(it always always always works best with prayers!)

So that in the future, when suddenly you raise one leg when he/she comes out, you'll believe
He/She is your 2 O's...
(One & Only..)

Life's  a battleground for a persistent and tougher person !
For those that strongly hold the "won't give-up" flag!

"If you don't sail your yacht (finish the sentence by yourselves..) " 

You can hate what you've got but you don't get why you hate?

Lets talk about U-S.

About you, about me, about him, about her and about them.

Some times we really really need a break from holding in too much in the chest till you feel like a ticking bomb, waiting to explode!

So let it out.

What is it with that silent cries at nights, and wet pillows, and that swollen eyes in the morning?
What is it that you worry so much ?
What is the problem with your fat abs, and stomach layers and those big cute pimples on your wide forehead?

Humans will never feel satisfy enough.
But what we can do is to turn the table we can hold.
Stop thinking about what the puberty roller coaster hormonal activities have done  to you?

Why don't we try-at least try- 
to look at things with rainbow instead of heavy rain?

That pimples will run out soon.
That fat abs will disappear with few round of run.
That stomach layers will flattened under continuous sit-ups.

There's nothing too rush for a dreamer.
Always have a big hope and do big to achieve it!

Things you hate are still you.
Think, how far you will hate yourself?
Then who's going to love you?
Who's going to like a bunch of living and walking hatred? 

Remember peoples!

How well people made you as "THEIRS".

We tend to feel how special we are in some body's eyes.
But its fun too when we can see whether we are their 'special' or the'specific' purposes friend.
One of the way is When they call for us, listen to their first sentence! 
You don't have any idea on how
truuuuuttt...trutttttttt... (phone ringing)
"Hello, Hye dude, how are you?", or
straight 'greetings' such as "Pick me up at 6 !" would bring HUGE differences!
At times, some of them literally used us as theirs when we are far more advantageous.
When we have cars, money especially, we can be the best tree to shade the weed.
Be careful of that!

Number two, The parasites faking faces are obvious!
Either you are sight-disabled or perfectly normal, you heart won't lie.
We can always feel when something wrong is happening.. like someone purposely poking on you for somethings..
The most-attached person to you are the hardest to remove because the longer you stuck
(there's a huge different between stuck & stick) with them, the more they dig out of you, including your ups and down secrets!
Watch out dude!

Number three, Cold & silence policies are the best !
When you literally stuck between your mind and your heart, stop buzzing around for an answer.
Settle down and being cold and silence as your best shot!
Keep distance to see who's having leisure without you, and who will still standing, waiting for you!
AAAAWWWWW...
#sosweeeeeeeeet

So, all the best in being a goooooood friend!

Malaysia Needs A Milotic

When the news of MH370 has been found through its scattering debris, many of us showed deepest condolence. While some were not that supportive... I would say..., we can at least be grateful because we have found our most valuable family members...

Family is not attached by blood-related only but family is very subjective..

A lot of negatives critics and comments were given about the disappearing until its founding.. 

These minorities clan of Malaysian most probably missed the Civic Class during their high school...

If  you cant give 14.3 billion to search of the plane at the endless Hindi Ocean...

If you cant spend months and leaving your family behind to look for the victims family...

If you cant fly back and forth across the globe for all small possibilities that MH370 is still alive..

And if you cant even send some prayers for them..

Then stay silent..

Do you know that silence is the best policy when you don't have the authorities and expertise for your blunt theories and the exclamation statement?

If we cant help then at least have hope..

With all political theatre going around right now, we cant deny that somehow, someway, this might be affected or related.. But, SOMEHOW, it might not.

In SOMEWAY, it may just not happen the way you think of.

If you ever watch the Pokemon series, Milotic is an aquatic creature that calms down opponents anger during a pitch fight.

So, with all these mad men poking around the country, Malaysians might need to look for this water creature in our abundant natural water sources..

Who knows we might find one?

When a person gives a comment or explanation, we ought not to expect things exactly like we want to hear. 

Because life isn't working with 'exactly' all the times.

Life happens to have plan, hard works, results, and when you gave your best shot, you put hopes and prayers..

So for those irrelevant keyboard warrior, and in-expertise 'prime ministers', as well as the 'clueless national ambassadors', you might want to stop talking or 'make-head' for other people to worry about their lost family members..

Remember.

Hatred don't bring back the goners but prayers are..