Theres no wrong in

I heard people say, 

that being nice is wrong and being bad is wrong either.

At last we end up not knowing what and who we have become?

Let say if 10 people face this problem then we will waste 10 unique identities and personalities. 

Listen.

Life is meant to be well and good.

.

So if you are being nice to all the livings even , they keep on hurting you in any possible way, it is the best for you , to try, not to feel hurt so much.

The key to this is sincerity.

We should not expect people to get you the way you want them to see you but we can only relflect 'us' through our actions.

And at times, even action is not enough.

Dear. 

If they are being mean to us and not knowing how much we've done for them behind their back, its fine.

Their judgement may misjudged.

But we have Him-who-knows-it-all.

-and He is the Only place to return to.

.

Soon and later ♥♥

If you ever wonder why your problem is like a dog chasing its tail; endless, non-stop and it comes from one another? Then maybe you keep on sitting in a tight corner thinking why all this happening to you?
People, life is a huge deal. Never compare your problem to another because you are living a different life. In fact, contrasting it would not make you relief from this hectic chaos either. So, if you cry at a corner/be a sober/deal with a weeks hangover/even think for a suicide; HOLD THAT THOUGHT FOR A MOMENT!

1. See a bigger picture.
★ You think that you had the worst nightmare right now compared to the other 6 billion people on earth because that is how you want it to be !
Sad. Stop being pathetic and dry your running nose. Even if death is upon your face, so why cant atleast, atleast, have one second to be positive that this will end very soon.
Let say, if you had the best life compared to the 6 billion people on earth, hey, tell me. How that would feel ?

2. Fight if that what is takes to tango.
● Listen. Human are undefine creature. Some are just, i shall say UNBELIEVABLE. If diplomatic wont walk the talk then, you might need a little more exagerration effort to claim your right. Be rational and put your main point on the table, not to put your self on the table. That is a huge case of thing we would not want to deal with.

3. Kifarah, Karma, COD &repent.
Despite of religion and believes, we must accept the fact that our life are attached to one another. Either its called Kifarah/so called  "what goes around comes around" thingy, trust me, you wont need a bunch of rusting  nails living inside your life and ruining every single thing you work on. So please be good to others like how you wanted them to treat you. Have a positive attitudes, send positive vibes to people around you and be healthy inside out.
Ofcourse these would not work out everytime but remember that atleast, you will never die hard for trying.
In fact, it is better to avoid CASH ON DELIVERY "payment" for those bad things we've done especially if you are not a person with a diamond traits.
And, no matter how dark the shades we've got in past, IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO REPENT. ♥♥♥

"Diamond is just a piece charcoal that handled stress exceptionally well. " 

(WHEN SOMEBODY TELLS YOU THAT...)

when somebody tells you that you are wrong..
maybe they mean well..
maybe they point out your flaw because they think that you should know.. and its their social responsibility to tell you whats wrong..
at times, we tend to think  that:
" Do you think I'm blind to see my own fault?! "

" I'm old enough to realize it , people!!"

But what we didn't know is that they didn't mean to embarrass us..
they just think that they need to tell us as soon as possible because you might realize your mistake too late and you will keep on hurting yourself and other people..

however, the society also need to learn on how to critic wisely about other people.
when we want to give comments, we should see the situation. sometimes, no matter how well we meant, the situation might end up worst when you talk at the wrong time at the wrong place with the wrong tone.

it is dangerous to give blunt comment/critics when you are in the middle of funeral, or when your best friend is having a break up, or you are facing someone's breaking point.

it is true that we must say the right things but the key for an effective critics is at the right time, right place with the right words.

this is just a soft-gentle-baby reminder for everyone so that our life can be improved day by day.

Positivity Pit-stop !

When you feel like the world is against you, 

" Just live. Don't die. Not now."

When somebody make you feel left-out, ease yourself .

" Most of the time, distance is the only way to measure someone's importance." 

You must remember that;

" Presence is always granted.

Absence is overtaken."

Distance will show you that;

"At times, I like to keep distance from people. to know who misses me the most, having leisure without me, and who will standing, waiting for me." 

If you encounter a 'you-know-who' that is hard as concrete, advise him that;

"At certain point in life, you must open your heart to someone. Don't stuck in your past. 'It' is having leisure eating you future."

When you found that a part of you is being down grade by someone else;

" The brightest star is the one who died longer, who suffered millions explosion, who crashed thousand times but rebuilt trillion times." 

There will be time in life that you may find a 'cookies-friend' where trust and believe are meaningless for them;

" I think, God sent you to open my eyes on how I should define trust and believe."

Everyday, we just have to;

" Let's begin again."

When you have no possible answer even you try hard to crack one from this whole universe;

"There's nothing like consequences. It's all fate." 

If you think that a guy hit you to the end of your apocalypse, wait a second and think that;

"The best part in break up is, you open up chances for a better man."

Guys, pleaseee;

" A bad guy will be reminded for his one good deed, a nice guy will be reminded for his one big lie."

 Take chances;

"If Christopher Columbus didn't sail his yacht, he won't discover America." 

 I don't support bullying or blackmailing people but it is okay to remind them GENTLY;

" Dear, I bottled up everything because I know how you would react if it's out. So stay at the safe line. Stay apart. I know you better that you. Don't let my anger burst. Somehow, I'm afraid you can't take it."  

If you have so much in hands to in charge, give yourselves a pop-up reminder;

" Do not ask more than what you can take." 

Basically, this is my hobby, to create the wisdom words, that can boost up my mood when i need it the most, and it allows me to view at things differently from peoples point of view.
The inspiration can be from anything and anywhere because you will never expect something to happen and how it will change our attitude towards someone else :)