(WHEN SOMEBODY TELLS YOU THAT...)

when somebody tells you that you are wrong..
maybe they mean well..
maybe they point out your flaw because they think that you should know.. and its their social responsibility to tell you whats wrong..
at times, we tend to think  that:
" Do you think I'm blind to see my own fault?! "

" I'm old enough to realize it , people!!"

But what we didn't know is that they didn't mean to embarrass us..
they just think that they need to tell us as soon as possible because you might realize your mistake too late and you will keep on hurting yourself and other people..

however, the society also need to learn on how to critic wisely about other people.
when we want to give comments, we should see the situation. sometimes, no matter how well we meant, the situation might end up worst when you talk at the wrong time at the wrong place with the wrong tone.

it is dangerous to give blunt comment/critics when you are in the middle of funeral, or when your best friend is having a break up, or you are facing someone's breaking point.

it is true that we must say the right things but the key for an effective critics is at the right time, right place with the right words.

this is just a soft-gentle-baby reminder for everyone so that our life can be improved day by day.