The Curse Words.

For the past few years,I noticed that cursive words had became the 'in-trend' and the westerners even commercialize them as the "blurring-safe-comedy".
 In any of the situation, whether some one get a great news or the bad one, (obviously), people will curse.
they like to mix the +ve and the -ve words alltogether like "H***S***".

Once the mouth is opened, the burst comes out..

i was thinking like whats wrong with the people nowadays?
generally, we all know that the cursive phrase are not nice to be spoken because they depicting who you are and more, it hurts people badly.
this has gotten worst when you 'curse' some one for the good help they did for you to replace 'thank you'.
when its happen ill be like...

WHAT THE HEAVEN? 

So, I would like to share the common knowledge in Islam that when a Muslim curse, society will reflect on negative attitudes to him/her even at the end of day, we try to make it up and be as positive as we can. 
Muslim is educate to be aware of what we are saying because we have faith that words are prayers.

 (I believe the same goes to other believes..right?)

Plus what's with the cursing when we have the short and simple recitations for every situation happens in our daily life?

Beside, the recitations can be used as one for all! 

When you're shock, you can recite 
"Allahuakbar!" or 
"Astagfirullahhalazim" 
or, "Mashaallah" or, 
"Subhanallah" or 
"Lailahaillallah" or 
"Innalillah" or 
"Allah" or 
"AllahummasollialasayyidinaMuhammad" or, 
"Tabarakallah" and many others..


Instead of "F***" or, "Stu***" or, "GTH" or "GTD" or, "Bi***" or, "Blo**You" or other impolite verbal gestures to express your happiness, gratefulness and  ,"shocks", i thinm the recitations must have sounded much much more better!

In fact speaking nicely is one of the civilized value as a human.. especially as a Malaysian..we would always accept the..
"Oh My God!" 
"Oh Dear!" 
"I'm sorry" 
"Really?" 
"Oh My Goodness" ,

at all cost.. 
 you might want to list them down, and you'll definitely get a lengthy one...:)

The recent studies proven that these cursers-haha - are carrying more than 80% negativity in themselves in every aspect of their life.

so how would you be a successful person and achieve all your life goals when all you have is the negative attitudes??

& the occurred issue about this behavior disorder was that ; the spoken language is like a transmitted disease.
It can be trended and absorb by anyone until that society will most probably loose their own traditional language.
The younger generation tend to adapt the language as 'normal' and 'formal' for them until they lost rational which one is the proper and soothe for the society?

I tend to consider this language as very 'disturbing' and 'suffocating'.
I must say, at times, i also can't stop myself from saying the lowest level (i studied that these phrases have levels) of this cursive words when someone really ditched himself into a big big problem with me BUT, that's it. i'll stop right away. Because..
(He's not even listening my cursive words)
(He didn't find me being furious by saying those words)

I tried hard to learn expressing my anger with the same burning a.k.a #DEEP words so that the person will be like 
"What are you saying just now??"

Well, it actually can be a prayer and an advice with the sarcasm word inside, in a simple sentence with the double-meaning or so i can say #Deep.

It is much much more better to say something that is right even though people will get hurts because we can't ever satisfy everyone. 
So at least, tell them the right things instead of cursing and wishing them to die.

"Honest person will never get a bunch of friends but those few, are the true ones."